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Wednesday, November 20, 2013

The Wandering Dinner Party

So, the day after The Numbers Game closed, before some people went one direction, and as other people just arrived to start on the next show, we decided on the first test round of our Grand Experiment: The Wandering Dinner Party.

 There are a handful of us living in walking range of each other. (A very novel concept after 24 years in the country, where the nearest 'next door' get together was the exciting New Year's Eve dinners at friends' farm, about 18 km away.) Admittedly, the walk is easier when the weather is good. Our evening was a bit chilly, but clear, dry weather.

 I'd wanted to be part of the Grand Experiment, especially in this first round, while it was still small in numbers! But I wisely decided I was only able for cocktails and canapes, where people might expect to just stand around...nibbling something on a toothpick.

 By some quirk of fate, we actually managed to sit. Kind of. And I contrived some table space for the canapes. (Greatly in need of some cooking, even with no time, no tools, and minimal ingredients, I chose a Spanish theme, and did some tapas and sherries.)
                                                                            Guests!

 Next we had a brisk walk across downtown Orangeville, past our final location, and across a small bridge over a stream. (Tim shone his flashlight down to show it to us in the dark! I hadn't even realized this pathway existed, and it certainly tightens up our little route.)
Our next stop, for the entree, was the lovely little apartment where Paula, our Stage Manager from the show which just closed, and Kevin, our incoming Stage Manager, live. (They're also brand newcomers to the place, though with fewer boxes!)
Here we had a succulent roast with all the best accompaniments. Then we wandered back to our final address for dessert.
An amazing chocolate ginger cheesecake, and a cocktail with citrus and ginger. And an elderflower liqueur.


Then a final nightcap of blueberry wine, and music on Tim's victrola! (And a stagger back home in the nippy evening air...)
  Of course, the very next day I started three days of intensive packing and moving, (still not finished) and all empty spaces are now filled with boxes. And I've started working on the Christmas show, so may not have time to breathe till we open...

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Up-Helly-Aa 2012

The final installment?

If we're to trust the Mayans, that is.

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Sunday, September 05, 2010

Look, Dave!




PIE!!!

Monday, January 04, 2010

No Room At The Inn

So, an odd sort of Christmas parable. Just before Christmas, yet again there was a day when both Lily and I perked up our ears and thought we heard something as we passed through Darrell's indoor shop.

('Indoor' being a relative term. Yes, the room is framed in out of part of the garage space, and insulated to a degree, and heated very mildly, but that's about as far as it goes. For all intents and purposes it is *outside* of the house. In fact, come wintertime, it becomes extra pantry and root cellar storage in a pinch, because things will keep cold enough!)

Anyway, Lily mistrusts the room for reasons known best to herself and her little cat mind, so the attempt to let her out into the rest of the garage, which was far less deep than the official outdoors, didn't go so well. And then I heard the tiny voice. A little mewing voice. Lily heard it too. And went over to stare at the cupboards under the sink, and the ceiling above it.
Since last fall we'd had abandoned kittens that had stuffed themselves in the soffits (go figure...) I layered on the winter gear to explore that possibility.

[Note: winter in Wareham can be a polar experience. We're in the snowbelt. And then some. We get the 'north of Toronto' snow. We get 'lake effect' snow. We get the 'highest point in Ontario' snow. In short, we get snow. You've seen the pictures, right?]

In fact, winter in Wareham can be very much like the descriptive passage from Jean Shepherd's A Christmas Story.
"Preparing for school during an Indiana winter was like getting ready for extended deep-sea diving. Long johns, three pairs of socks, high tops, overshoes, corduroy knickers, flannel lumberjack shirt, four sweaters, fleece-lined leatherette sheepskin coat, gloves, mittens over the gloves, stocking cap, ear flap hat over the stocking cap... and a scarf wound around and around until only the faint glint of two eyes peering out of a mound of moving dry goods told you that there was a kid in there. Somewhere."

So, we'd had snow, and moving through the yard as opposed to around the outer edges of the yard is less of an option. So I put on the big boots. (Several years ago, I gave up on the idea of any boots remotely resembling something ladylike or fashionable and have just opted for big winter snowboots, or bigger higher wellies for short duration slogs. And snowshoes if I really intend to make it to the compost heap....) And the big coat, and gloves, and a scarf. And wormed my way out and around the winter barricade of tarps and 2x4's that we erect about ourselves in winter, in hopes of leaving some lifeline to the outer world traversible. At least with the minimum of tunneling.
And then I floundered my way around the side of the building to check for small animals on the outside.
(Seems the lost cat was smarter than I was!)

After I scrabbled my way back in and emptied the boots, I tried making inviting, small animal noises in the loft, and then again in the main room of our driveshed garage space. Eventually I was answered, and a skinny black cat emerged from the depths of under or over the shop space, and demanded attention. (No nervous feral barn cat this...)

He also seemed to have no particular fear of any of our cats. Though they didn't think much of him, and announced it quite plainly.
Because the weather took a turn for the colder, and the Spare Cat didn't show any interest at all in leaving, or looking for somewhere he should have been that wasn't here, Darrell rigged up a milk crate with a worklight attached for warmth. Last thing we wanted was to discover a catsicle in the morning!

As is usual, no-one on the crossroads appeared to have lost him, or know anyone further afield who might have. And, of course, they all already have their share of adopted abandoned animals.










He was definitely a people cat, and more than determined that we should let him in. Soft-hearted that we are, he eventually managed to spend some of his time in Darrell's shop.
Then, as Christmas loomed, he got cunning and discovered that if anyone wasn't wary enough as they went into the house, or their hands were full, he could streak by and get in too! That was fun.
He was a very persistent little cat!

We didn't worry too much. Although we weren't really looking to adopt another cat, if there were no other options, and our other cats would allow it...

Thing is, we'd lost our fourth cat in August. Both Darrell and I miss her a great deal, but we'd realized shortly after that, just how much our cats don't. It was only after we were back to the original trio that we saw just how unhappy Bear had been with her around, and how much his personality had changed now she was gone again.
It had always been a bit like a bar in the Neutral Zone with Klingons and StarFleet not getting along... After over three years with Coco, it was still just a shaky temporary cease fire, not peacetime.

Anyway, Spare Cat was pleased to come in where there was heat and comfortable places to sit, and tried to become invisible so no-one would throw him out. But the amount of time he could sit still was pretty limited and eventually he'd just be in to too many places he shouldn't be, or have upset the cats too much, and out he'd get tossed again!

Just before Christmas, a good friend who'd been 'pimping him out' to everyone she knew figured she'd found a possible new home for him, so we didn't worry as much, and we'd let him come in for visits more frequently, until he'd wear out his welcome.





And after the Christmas weekend, we bundled him off to a new life, with a new person and fellow-cat and name. So, hopefully another abandoned or lost cat has been saved. I wish I knew where they keep coming from. And why the cats that show up seem to always be nice cats, friendly cats, attractive cats, cats of an age where they need to be neutered, coincidentally just about when people need to step up and accept some responsibility for owning a pet...

But I'm so happy that there are also people out there who helped us, and were willing to take a little spare cat into their home. It made our Christmas a bit happier.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

For Karen

Something I noticed as we breakfasted in Tobermory, before we took the ferry across to Manitoulin.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

from the paper today

Obituary

E. MURRAY SIMPSON (published on February 21, 2009)

E. MURRAY SIMPSON, B. ARCH. Passed away February 17, 2009 at his residence in Fairview Home in Brandon. Murray was born in Winnipeg in 1926 to Roy and Eva Simpson. Murray is survived by his wife, Mef Simpson, whom he married in 1950; children Vandy Simpson (Darrell Markewitz) of Wareham, Ontario, Dr. Carl Simpson (Anna Marie Larsen) of Waterloo, Ontario, Joanne (Ward Keith) and grandchildren Jonah and Arielle of Winnipeg. He is also survived by his brother Waverley (Pat) and nephews Bruce and Scott and their families, also of Winnipeg. Murray graduated from University of Manitoba in 1948 with a degree in architecture. He then spent two years of postgraduate studies at the School of Design in Chicago. He returned to Winnipeg and was employed at Green, Blankstein Russell Architects, moving in 1960 to Brandon to open a branch office. Among the projects he worked on in Brandon were the Brandon General Hospital, the Parish Hall at St. Matthews Cathedral, the Brandon Sun, the Brodie Building and two residences on B. U. campus, Manitoba Public Insurance, Hobbs Manor, and the Garden Lounge at Fairview. Murray was an Honorary life member of the Children's Aid Society and past deputy governor for the Kinsmen Club of Brandon. He also served as president of the Brandon Allied Art Centre, the Art Gallery of Southwestern Manitoba and served as a board member of the Royal Winnipeg Ballet. His hobbies included pottery, fencing, designing and painting theatre sets for the Ballet, MTC and Brandon School of Music. He loved travelling with his wife and friends and was an avid gourmet cook. The family will have an intimate memorial at a later date and asks that those who knew Murray take a moment to reflect and enjoy your memories of him. Messages of condolence may be placed at www.brockiedonovan.com Arrangements are in care of Brockie Donovan Funeral Cremation Services, (204) 727-0694.

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Thursday, January 01, 2009

The Ultimate Snack Food?

Stolen from my brother's blog about life in Cambodia...

Thursday, November 06, 2008

A Blog Post Just for Me!

My brother and his lady are living and working in Cambodia for four months, and have been keeping a blog of the adventure.
Today he posted an entry, just for me! (Okay, for everyone else too, but with me in mind...)

The Island of Weaving (for Vandy)

Very exciting! Exciting to have someone write a blog post for me, doesn't happen every day, and exciting just because it was a fascinating little expedition thay'd made, on a subject that intrigues me. I was actually going to ask him what they'd seen of textiles, since I know the Indo-China area is rich with textile production.

The entire blog is a fascinating one. Cambodia is so distant. The little I know of it comes from movies (are they an accurate source?) and cookbooks! Carl has filled the blog with photographs of a culture that is both exotic and confusing, as well as writing a wonderful narrative.
The blog is well worth the visit.

At Home In Cambodia.

vandy

Sunday, June 01, 2008

Smelt Prep

We had the smelt prep day this weekend. Some of the members of our Viking Age interest group were by, to help get ready for the upcoming DARC camp and iron smelt. (Somewhere along the way we realized we have to combine interests if we're going to manage to fit things in to peoples' calendars. Iron smelting seems to have achieved a guaranteed date, therefore if we also want to do a bit of period camping, and the occasions for pulling that off seem to dwindle as time goes on, then we have to start multi-tasking!) Yesterday, a new smelter needed to be built, since we eked the last bit of life and usefulness out of the previous one, when we tried the double smelt in the late fall.

*at the smelter shelter, after building the smelter.
*freshly washed from clay to the armpits...

* the messy business of making "Darc Dirt", which is an experimental bog ore analog. And here I thought that Darrell was the one who knew how to get messy!

* the new screen-y gazebo thingie, down by the pond and smelter shelter, where we can hide from black flies and mossies.

*Why your mother told you never to play with red iron oxide. What do you mean your mother never told you...?

Anyway, we're pretty much set to go. The Darc Dirt needs to dry out, and be broken up. Right now it looks like a bunch of trays of red fudge. Charcoal will need some crushing and sorting, but is a good job for on the day. There are always people who'd like to be involved, but don't need to set themselves on fire! (We reserve that special honour for the experienced smelters in the crowd...)

True Confessions

Oh, oh. What is this going to do to my reputation as a confirmed hater of babies?

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Chickens, Southern-Style

Well, since I'm on a roll, chicken-wise, how about some other pictures.
It's not that I'm necessarily obsessed with chickens, though I always enjoy a good critter-pic... But when we were down in Virginia, our hostess had recently (since our last visit anyway) acquired some chickens.And one of my best friends up here raises chickens, and will always tell me anything I could need to know about raising chickens!
But when I saw Elizabeth's southern style chicken accommodations, I knew I had to take some pics for my favourite gypsy!


For starters, the lucky chickens have a spectacular setting for their home. On the side of a wooded mountain. (Very folksy!) And there's an entirely different kind of climate to contend with. In Ontario, chickens need some really sturdy and weather-secure homes. The Gypsy's chickens live in fine style, and are lovingly tucked away from the winter winds.
Virginia chickens get to live more rustically. (Rusticly?) Which allows for a bit more quirky personality in their surroundings.
This is the 'winterized' version of their house, with the extra straw and poles for insulation. By now, Elizabeth will have pulled that away, leaving them their little ol' log hen house.

And isn't he a fine-looking fellow? (And he knows it! The good-looking ones always do....)

Wednesday, March 05, 2008

Turning 13!



This handsome young man turns 13 today.


HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JONAH!!!


Now I need a picture that shows how grown up he must be looking. I'm way out of date here.

Auntie-V

Thursday, February 21, 2008

The Rumours Are True!

He's leaving me.

The rat-bastard has got himself invited to an iron symposium in DENMARK! of all places, and yes, he's going.

(Not that I fault him for this.) And he did ask if I wanted to come along. But leading the financially-challenged, though creatively- [occasionally] rewarding life as a very occasional costume designer and props maker for a little theatre, does not translate into tripping to Denmark.

Sigh.

I did tell him he'd have to bring me a nice gift...

v

Monday, January 14, 2008

Four Score

Wilma Loyd Davies and Mef Simpson




The exhibition Four Score will highlight the enormous artistic skill and experience of two of Brandon’s more renowned watercolour painters. Wilma Lloyd Davies large-scale paintings combine watercolour with collage to create a colourful floral world from the perspective of an insect. Mef Simpson also uses nature as a source material to works. Her masterful yet joyful approach to painting breathes new life into traditional subject matter of landscape, still life and the flower bouquet.

Together Mef Simpson and Wilma Lloyd Davies represent over 60 years of experience making art and making the Brandon art scene grow. Their expert watercolours are vivid with the sheer joy of creating.

Art Gallery of Southwestern Manitoba

Saturday, June 16, 2007

Hoya

My mother brought home a snippet of a hoya plant, from somewhere, when she was much younger. She got it to root, and maintained it as a plant throughout life. Over the years, both my sister and I have had our own snippets. I have no idea how green a thumb my sister has, wouldn't surprise me if it was kelly green! I've had a number of attempts in varying stages of my life, which have usually eventually died.
It wasn't till I was visiting my sister a few years ago, and saw her lush happy hoya in bloom, that I even knew it was a flowering plant!
That may have been the trip that I begged yet another cutting of the hoya, and dragged the poor thing back across the country with me.
Now, my thumb may be no greener at all, but at least that clipping rooted and was potted, and is still with me. It hasn't really grown a huge amount, considering I've been babying it for several years, But lo! and Behold! it has flowered. For three years in a row!
One flower each year, in exactly the same spot on the stem.

It's an amazingly exotic flower too. And night-scented with an overpowering perfume. It begins secretively with tiny nubbins that eventually grow into little stalks, and then into little leathery pin cushions, and finally, burst into velvet flocked stars.

But I'm always trying to get photographs of this fascinating occurrence. Here are this year's offerings.






Sunday, May 27, 2007

The Long Weekend

Not the play by Norm Foster. That's packed up in dry dock, waiting to move to Port Dover, and then to Kincardine.
Nope, I'm talking about camping on the long weekend. Each year we go to Ameliasburgh Museum for their opening weekend, and are part of a black powder rendezvous. Well, not much black powder actually, but lots of buckskinners, and some French Indian War people, and some suttlers... And a potluck, and some games, and a lot of old friends.
The toad who had to move a few yards when we dug our firepit.




Some of the camps.





Pete, being stylish.



Darrell in the blacksmith's shop, looking a lot like the Paul Calle print.




One of the children, and two of the fellows in earnest conversation.


Sunday, April 29, 2007

Ice Floe Time

Yup. Sad to say.

Yesterday I was stupid. Indefensibly dumb. I was meeting a friend, and we were going to drive together to a medieval event. It wasn’t as close as they’d originally planned, and was going to be a long boring drive. And my brakes are asking for some TLC.

So, we picked a meeting point midway between us, and still vaguely on course for Paris, Ontario. About a half hour away from each of us. I’d offered to bring a lunch for us, and had gathered up a basket of pleasant things to eat and drink.

In a moment of forethought, I’d set my alarm a bit early, so I’d have time to shower and wash my hair. One minute before my alarm had gone off, one of the students camping out for the blacksmithing course, came in to use the loo. And fifteen minutes later I decided there was no point in just lying awake waiting, poised to hurl myself under the hot water, and got up, and went upstairs to putz.
As soon as the student finished his teeth-brushing and etceteras, I did dash down. But by then my even keel was somewhat askew.

However, I left in time, and trundled off to get gas, and head down to Shelburne. I got there a few minutes before my friend, and all was well, until the split second I actually started to unload my car into his. It was at that moment I realized I had a basket of lunch, but no tote bag full of my costume. AAAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHH!

There was a quick little meltdown, and then I pulled out my cellphone and started looking for options. Of course, I don’t carry a lot of phone numbers, just a few programmed into my cell. Turned out one friend had changed numbers, another had their phone turned off, my husband, who could have given me other numbers to try, had already gone downstairs to the class he was teaching, and the one other number I could think of to try, wouldn’t go through.
Eventually, John, kind and generous man that he is, offered to swing by my home, so I could dash in and pick up the bag.

Of course, it made us late for the event, and we missed the things we’d hoped most to be there for. (Sorry Martin.)
All day, John was so polite about it. When people inquired, he merely said we’d had a delay. I was the one who came out and announced it was my fault, that I’d had a brain shutdown.

I did promise John that I’d try to make sure it was my one big stupid for the year….

And then this morning, I put on a cup of coffee, and went outside to check the garden. And the pond and the fish. And chatted with the neighbour girl. And with Larry. And then I came on in to get my cup of coffee… To discover I never put the carafe under the machine, and all the coffee and ten cups of water had burbled out and over the counter and everything on it, and down onto the floor, and into the container of plastic bags (where most of it pooled, thank goodness…) and onto the cat’s bowls and food tray….
Sigh.

That’s two Big Stupids in two days. That’s why I think it might just be Ice Floe Time.

***

On the plus side, my bloodroot is flowering, and I even found a stray plant some goodly distance away, and I have my first violets.