Yup. Sad to say.
Yesterday I was stupid. Indefensibly dumb. I was meeting a friend, and we were going to drive together to a medieval event. It wasn’t as close as they’d originally planned, and was going to be a long boring drive. And my brakes are asking for some TLC.
So, we picked a meeting point midway between us, and still vaguely on course for Paris, Ontario. About a half hour away from each of us. I’d offered to bring a lunch for us, and had gathered up a basket of pleasant things to eat and drink.
In a moment of forethought, I’d set my alarm a bit early, so I’d have time to shower and wash my hair. One minute before my alarm had gone off, one of the students camping out for the blacksmithing course, came in to use the loo. And fifteen minutes later I decided there was no point in just lying awake waiting, poised to hurl myself under the hot water, and got up, and went upstairs to putz.
As soon as the student finished his teeth-brushing and etceteras, I did dash down. But by then my even keel was somewhat askew.
However, I left in time, and trundled off to get gas, and head down to Shelburne. I got there a few minutes before my friend, and all was well, until the split second I actually started to unload my car into his. It was at that moment I realized I had a basket of lunch, but no tote bag full of my costume. AAAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHH!
There was a quick little meltdown, and then I pulled out my cellphone and started looking for options. Of course, I don’t carry a lot of phone numbers, just a few programmed into my cell. Turned out one friend had changed numbers, another had their phone turned off, my husband, who could have given me other numbers to try, had already gone downstairs to the class he was teaching, and the one other number I could think of to try, wouldn’t go through.
Eventually, John, kind and generous man that he is, offered to swing by my home, so I could dash in and pick up the bag.
Of course, it made us late for the event, and we missed the things we’d hoped most to be there for. (Sorry Martin.)
All day, John was so polite about it. When people inquired, he merely said we’d had a delay. I was the one who came out and announced it was my fault, that I’d had a brain shutdown.
I did promise John that I’d try to make sure it was my one big stupid for the year….
And then this morning, I put on a cup of coffee, and went outside to check the garden. And the pond and the fish. And chatted with the neighbour girl. And with Larry. And then I came on in to get my cup of coffee… To discover I never put the carafe under the machine, and all the coffee and ten cups of water had burbled out and over the counter and everything on it, and down onto the floor, and into the container of plastic bags (where most of it pooled, thank goodness…) and onto the cat’s bowls and food tray….
Sigh.
That’s two Big Stupids in two days. That’s why I think it might just be Ice Floe Time.
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On the plus side, my bloodroot is flowering, and I even found a stray plant some goodly distance away, and I have my first violets.
